3 changes that make life work!

3 changes that make life work!

1. Get clear on what you want and why.
2. Clear your energetic and subconscious beliefs about you and your life.
3. “Program in” the criteria you want.

These three steps are VERY POWERFUL.  They may or may not happen in this order, but I’ve seen all three make a huge impact.

So how do you start?

When you look at #1  above, are you confused? Are you clear? Many of my clients hit a wall when just thinking about step one. Why? Because early programming & modeling from parents, society or mentors has you believing that what you want can’t or won’t happen. On top of that, if you have nothing to link yourself to your future goals, dreams and desires, you can stall out. The thing about “hidden” limiting beliefs, is that sometimes, you just don’t know they are there in your way!

If you are stalling out, hitting a wall and can’t move forward OR you are trying and trying to accomplish something that just isn’t happening easily, THERE IS A REASON. You are not lazy, stupid or crazy. You are blocking. Why? Why would I be blocking? FEAR of something,  and that can be success, failure, what will happen AFTER the success comes, and so many more reasons.

Try some of these on…I’m not good enough; what will they think about me doing this; when I get what I want, will I lose it; they will hate me when I’m successful; on some level I believe I can’t or shouldn’t be allow to accomplish what I want or many other hidden limiting beliefs. They boil down to FEAR and protection.

If on some level you don’t think your desire is possible, or achieving them will be painful, you will block yourself.

The second step, is uncovering what is in your way from accomplishing our desire. Ahhhhhh, a tricky one. If you’ve been muscling every next step you have been taking, here are some thoughts to consider. First of all, you don’t have to know all the right things to do all at once. You need to start to listen to your inner knowing for the right NEXT STEP. I’ve felt this way, and I’m sure you have as well– OMG, I have to do this and that, and then get this done…and before you know it, you are off the races of overwhelm, exhaustion and complete confusion because it’s all just too much to think about. Can you relate? Have you felt this way? For sure I have in the past.

We are so programmed to think that we have to do it right or get it right that we scare ourselves right into being stuck. Why? BECAUSE IT SEEMS TOO PAINFUL. It is human nature to avoid pain! Here’s the thing. Next steps are like breadcrumbs and you can follow what feels right step by step. Ask yourself. Does “this” feel light or heavy to do this next step? If it’s light, FOLLOW IT! If it’s heavy something is talking to you, and warning you. That’s where energetic clearing helps. You might be carrying all of “their” ideas about your life instead of deciding what feels right to you.

I’ll give you an example. When I was in sales, one of my positions was selling for big roll outs of custom designed and built products. Everyone told me that I had to travel to the customer. I have to wine and dine them to get the order. I hated to travel for business so I made a compelling case for each and every BIG customer to come to our facility so I could show them in person why we were the best. …and it worked. Despite what my bosses expected and told me, their way didn’t fit for me and I found a way that felt right to me. The outcome? I was the only female sales person, with 4 other reps, and my sales represented 50% of the entire company’s sales! Why? Because I found a way that felt right to me. I did it my way and it was compelling enough to me that I convinced my managers that it would work. I closed big sales for companies like Disney, & Fuji among other biggies! I would’ve been so miserable traveling, which would’ve affected my attitude and made me grumpy, and that “energy” comes across whether you know it or not. I was so convinced in my belief that there was another powerful way to accomplish my goals that somehow, my energy projected a compelling case to my managers! It felt so right to me.

If you can’t do something in a way that feels right for you, what are the reasons you are believing are true? I’ll get fired? I can’t because they are authority? I will lose my marriage? It can’t be easy because they told me that hard work pays off? I NEED THIS JOB so I can’t screw it up? Can you see how that is all fear driven? There is a way to change those internal beliefs and emotional ties that are working against you. If you don’t know about tapping yet or if you are seeing this post anywhere but on my website, go to my homepage on my website at https://www.trueauthenticpower.com/ and watch my introduction video to get some insight.

This internal knowing and trusting is very powerful but if you can’t trust it or you aren’t even getting the next step ideas, you are missing some important tools. EVERYONE can use those intuitive nudges and they are not limited to women’s intuition. When you release what is subconsciously in your way, amazing next steps will show up. Are you looking for the right house, wanting to meet the right partner or mate, want a new career? The great thing is that the more you get clear, and clean up your energy, the more the “feel right” options show up. You will get faster, and easier results by using this tool. Sound good to you?

When I coach in some kind of live format or via my products, I use a tool called tapping. Yes, I love to dance and I took tap lessons as a kid, but no, it’s not that kind of tapping. It’s a way to move your energy that also allows you to uncover what is in your way and where it’s located in your body. That’s right. I said where you are holding it in your body.  Oh the hidden surprises of our energy…!

So? What are you believing is or isn’t true about you, and isn’t working for you? Are you willing to consider changing it and exploring? It’s more than possible to build a much better foundation for your life that creates joy, love, health, and success.

1. Get clear on what you want and why.
2. Clear your energetic and subconscious beliefs about you and your life.
3. “Program in” the criteria you want.

Have you ever considered what life would look like if you were having FUN? How long are you going to wait to figure it out? I will tell you that I have heard these same kinds of frustrations in clients in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and even 70s & 80s STILL trying to figure out why they don’t get to do what they’ve always wanted to do.

Does this resonate with you? Do you know how to change your energy and hidden beliefs about yourself and your life? Share your thoughts and share this message if you know of someone it could help! I’d love to hear from you. If you have questions, ask me now. Don’t wait till your life is so full of frustration that you hate it! The time to enjoy is NOW. Here’s to your True Authentic Power!