I am a failure or am I?

When I saw this clip, I knew I had to share it because so many clients don’t believe they “CAN”.  Watch the video.  I was one of those people too.  I didn’t like school, and even more, I disliked the mean, old nuns who taught me.  They were too old and too mean to be shaping the lives of young children.  I don’t know about you, but I don’t learn well when I’m in FEAR!!  In addition, my talents fall more into the right brain skill set…music, creativity, intuition, emotions.  School does not promote those gifts or give you a roadmap of how to use them in your career.  There was no music in my Catholic school K-8, no outlet for dance, and certainly no avenue to listen and follow my gut instincts.  We were told how to be and act so I didn’t thrive in the left brain school activities and study, and on top of that,  I had to worry about God’s punishment too!   I felt stupid.

Fast forward.  I was great in sales and a top sales producer in every single job I had.  I “felt” what to say.  I knew how to read people, and look at what I do for a living now!!  I use my intuition, working with emotions and beliefs to help clients clear what they “think they should do” or what they “think they should be”.  I had a front row seat to similar messages as in the clip and I’ve come to realize that “failure is really clarifying.  It shows you what isn’t right for you, or what doesn’t feel right, to give you clarity on what you DO WANT if you just flip it over.  How would “they” know what I should be doing?  They don’t live in my body, in my brain, with my gifts and talents.  It’s up to each of us to find our path of joy.

What I believe is that we are all born with our unique gifts and talents that we’ve been given to share with the world.  If you are still unhappy and playing those old tapes of who you are suppose to be, I know that tapping can bring you clarity, insights, open opportunities, and bring you the right people, places and situations to support who you are.  I’ve done it, my clients have done it, and it doesn’t have to take a long time!  So….are you tapping yet?