Expecting To Be Disappointed

Are you expecting to be disappointed?  Do you have a fear of asking for what you want?  Do you shut down your desires because you’ve been disappointed so much in the past?

Really “think” about my question.  When you have a desired outcome, do you expect to be disappointed or ignored?  If yes, this blog/podcast is for you!

Blocks don’t show up without reason.  Neither does fear or worry.  There is either some conscious or unconscious reason for it and when you realize that, you will stop beating yourself up and have more self compassion.  Then, when you change the energy and unhook from the fear reactions, you can actually have a great time expecting AND manifesting good things.

Energetically, when we have fear, there is some trigger going on inside that is trying to protect or alert us.  Maybe you have anchored a habit or pattern of disappointment to your expectations.  Maybe you always heard “no” when you asked for something, so you stopped asking.  Why bother, right?

What do you do then?

Tapping changes and releases the energy that is linked to expectation disappointment.  People often ask, why we focus on the negative when tapping.  Just because you are trying to outrun fear or any other perceived negative emotion, doesn’t mean it’s not still right there in your energy or mind.  Looking the other way, doesn’t change the negativity.  It just ignores it and shuts it down for a time.  If you are trying to avoid negative thoughts, that doesn’t mean that they are gone.  In fact, they are still there just under the surface.  That vibration doesn’t leave unless the energy changes.

The below link will give you a free sample of tapping through expectation disappointment.   You have to tap along to shift your energy since just listening will not work.  You can replay and reuse several times until the “charge” you feel is gone or at least lowered!  Listen and TAP along here!

Till next time…