Resolutions, heredity and energetic patterns oh my!

What’s the difference you ask?  I have seen so many people label something as being a family issue based on heredity–like weight, addictions, anxiety, illness, failure…you name it and I am likely to look for another reason it exists.  Why?  Because I believe we learn HABITUAL PATTERNS very early in our lives and pick up and lock into emotional, and physical energetic loops without even knowing it.

Let’s look at anxiety as an example.  I’ve worked with clients who have completely reversed this uncomfortable pattern who thought it was part of their DNA.  I start digging as far back as you can remember this being part of your life.  “My mother has it, my uncle has it or ….I’ve had it all my life”.   If you believe you have had it your entire life, then I start with what was going on during your birth or what was going on with your Mom/parents during her pregnancy while carrying you.  You might think that doesn’t matter, but oh, I’m here to tell you it has a HUGE impact on a fetus and your birth energy.  Reminder:  stuck energetic patterns are NOT ABOUT LOGIC.  It has more to do with your energy and anchors.

We anchor good things all the time.  That song that makes you feel so great, a trip memory that make you so happy, your first crush and that feeling….those are anchors.  You can bring up those “feelings” right here and now even though they’re not happening right now.  Well, the same is true for the negative side of things.  If your Mom was stressed, scared, or uptight for any reason when carrying you, your energy might have automatically linked and downloaded that energy and viola!  You think it’s a hereditary issue.  It’s more likely an energy issue that you learned to “feel” without even knowing it.

If you are new to energy, this might seem impossible to you, but believe me, I have clients that have Tapped with me that then see and feel things COMPLETELY differently.  Once those unconscious downloads move out of your energy, happiness, joy, and contentment can move in.  I get to watch that miraculous sight happen regularly in my office or hear about it over the phone (phone sessions are also very effective).

We are starting a new year and the resolutions are being shared with an underlying disbelief that they could even happen!  Why is there such a high failure rate? If you don’t clear the pattern that created the undesirable behavior and eliminate the reason you RECREATE the behavior,  you might be successful for a time, but then it is likely you will revert into the old slump.   How many people have tried to quit a habit, or lose weight only to fall back time and time again?  They are ENERGETIC PATTERNS and you can stop beating yourself up for failure!!

This year, why not break the pattern, and make the resolution easy, once and for all!  Do you want to continue to do the same old, same old that you’ve always done? …OR find the source and release it allowing a happier, healthier life???

Happy New Year to you!!  Love yourself first, starting now!