Time To Move on From That Relationship?

Is there a time to move on from that relationship or friendship?  Transitions and endings are often times considered painful.  Move on from the relationship?  When?  Why?  This doesn’t just apply to romantic relationships but there might be a time to move on from friendships as well.

Have you heard that relationships have a reason and a season of purpose?  When the reason or season has come to a close or served its purpose, there is a change in how we relate to each other, and how comfortable we feel with each other.  It’s not a bad thing though most people perceive it that way because of painful emotions that happen through the process.

Whether talking about a romantic relationship or friendship, there are clues that show up when we need to move on.  Endings or changes can be hard and convince us that it’s too painful or that we should keep on keeping on. The message or discomfort might be telling us the complete opposite!  For me, in those times of loss or change, I didn’t need advice.  I needed a soft understanding space to work through my emotions, fears and sadness. No one else will ever be able to do that for me or you!  It’s an inside job though someone like a tapping coach can help you navigate the twists and turns.

When talking about energy, like attracts like, even in relationships.  For example, if you are in grief or sadness, chances are good that you might unknowingly attract others in the same emotional space.

I would consider myself a very strong person but when I had a love relationship loss (via death) I was in an emotionally weakened state.  It’s interesting to reflect on the friendships that I “energetically attracted” during that time.  There were many emotional parallels.

Because I wanted to grow and heal, I was actively and willing diving in to clear my emotional pain.  Others around me were not so willing.  Our growing differences caused big changes in how we could relate to each other, and friendships also started feeling uncomfortable…at least for me.

I love being with people who are authentic and who are willing to uncover those aspects of themselves blocking their great manifestations.  There are times when I needed to hide from overwhelming emotional pain, but as soon as I could, I wanted to release those emotions to move forward into joy and happiness!

No one’s wrong in these transitions, but different needs require different circumstances and people.  When we don’t line up energetically any longer, changes are necessary.  Those changes and shifts are often times showing up to help us–not keep us stuck in sadness.  Giving a voice to our emotional needs while tapping, clears those reoccurring resistances that open us up to easier and necessary changes.

My journey has taught me to listen to my instincts.  When I’m in big resistance against a situation or with relationships, I know it’s time to look deeper.  What is going on?  Do I need something different?  Is a pattern playing out and creating havoc?  While I may ask others for opinions, I am not looking for or needing someone to tell me how, when and where to do something.  I am needing understanding and a soft place to talk and tap through my discomfort.  The more we ignore signs, nudges and internal discomfort, the more we are saying to our emotions—you don’t matter!  They not only matter, but tapping gives those reoccurring loops and emotions a voice!  Then the resistance lowers, and amazing changes occur.

That’s why it’s so important to take time to figure out what we want first.  It’s amazing how the people we attract change, as our energy and clarity changes.

You will never outrun buried emotional pain and holding on when it’s time to move on, is a BIG lesson for most of us.  I still get caught in the grips of that one!  I am so grateful though, that in my own personal times of unrest, I can remember the miracles and comfort that tapping brings.  I’ve helped facilitate so many tapping sessions that were like watching magic occur!

Relationship and friendships change during times of growth, and when new points of view and experiences are needed to enhance our lives.

Though it’s ultimately a good thing when relationships change or need to end, the transition can be less painful or sad with tapping.  It can also help us to view changes in a better and softer way.  On the other side of those perceived losses, there are good changes waiting!

Love and friendship relationships can enhance our lives.  When there is more pain than fun, or there seems to be an unequal amount of mutual benefit, or it just plain doesn’t feel very good, it’s time to evaluate.  What do I need?  What do I want?  Am I in the right friendship/relationship for my needs and desires?

Here’s another relationship article to help change your perception of friendship/love endings.  I hope you enjoy it!  Read it here!

Here’s to your True Authentic Power!