Trying to outrun your energetic loops?

Are you trying to outrun your energetic loops?  Why not just release them through Tapping?

Most of the time, people don’t even recognize that their energetic beliefs/assumptions, and emotions are causing the glitches in their lives. An example of this is the man who thinks the issue is about his wife (the same applies to a husband in a vice versa situation) regarding the love and affection that he is not getting FROM HER (or her from him).  He does what he thinks are all the right things, the flowers, a great financial lifestyle, trips, surprises, takes care of her, her car and just about everything else…but he gets almost nothing in return so he decides to end the relationship and divorce. Remember, in his mind, it is all about HER and HER fault.

What is he doing now? He is continuing to do the SAME KINDS OF THINGS based on what he believes is true (even though it didn’t work in his marriage) and he’s doing it now with his daughters. He “buys” them, treats them to all kinds of things, playing again right into HIS loop of, ” if I do all the right things that I was TAUGHT they should reward me with love”, then I will finally get what I want.

He got out of his marriage, but he didn’t outrun HIS energetic loop and pattern.  He’s just changed his focus to different players time and time again with the same results. …and how do his daughters treat him? He is rewarded with bad moods, and cranky behavior.  He takes care of these adult women financially….yet he still doesn’t get the great feelings, the love and sweetness that he wants.  It’s HIS ENERGY that is stuck, not his wife’s, not his daughters’, not anyone else’s…it is because of old beliefs that got programmed into his energy as a little boy which created a pattern, and now they are stuck in him.

You might say he’s just being generous. A healthy pattern doesn’t keep “rewarding and doing for people” who use you, take advantage of you, give you attitudes, and think they are entitled to what you do and give to them. That’s what he knows to be true from what got stuck when he was little so that is what he replays.  The pattern reaches beyond his currant family and he is left holding the bag–the empty bag of hurts, rejections, and emotional pain over and over again. It’s a replay of childhood, but he doesn’t see it.

Can this be turned around? You bet it can,  but he is so busy thinking it is all about “them” and what they don’t do for him, that he can’t even see his energetic loop and behavior and/or doesn’t want to address his side of the story. Multiple professional couselors/Drs. have given him the same message about his side of the story, but he’s convinced it is about “them”. What is REALLY stuck, is his old pain, the trauma from childhood that got looped and intertwined with what his subconscious now believes he has to do to be loved.  It could be so different for him, and could possibly turn around several relationships, but he will most likely continue on this path.  “It’s their fault”… if only I could find a loving woman…I will try again…..(while doing the same things). He is most likely just in for more pain.

What loops do you replay? With love?  With your career?  With money? EVERYONE gets embedded with beliefs from our parents and all the teachers we had growing up, but the really exciting thing is that when you break the subconscious replay and clear the energy from your body, you WILL draw in the right people, places and situations that support your new beliefs and energy. It’s amazing to watch that change happens, and my clients truly feel like they have felt miracles unfold.

What do YOU want for the new year? What has you locked up? Are you stuck? Disappointed over and over again? I have clients in several others states and it can be as effective over the phone so distance is NEVER an issue. It looks easy, but oh, when you use a coach who knows what they are doing…..miracles happen, joy becomes regular, and amazing things that you could never expect or plan, open up!

What do you want in your life forever more starting now?  Are you Tapping with a coach yet…..or waiting for “them” or “the situation” to change?!