Who are your INTIMATE ENEMIES?

You might think that I am talking about your past/current romance relationships, but I’m not.  The energetic patterns that you are manifesting in your love and romance relationships now, started a LONG time ago.  This is NOT about “them” either, but about you, what you learned, and how you use that to protect yourself!  Did I ruffle a feather or 20 zillion out there?  Hold on, and let me explain.

The situations that are showing up in your love life or lack of loving relationships, are giving you clues. The questions are, do you use those clues to heal your limiting fears about love, and do you even know how?  Let’s go back, because you are replaying what you saw or learned growing up and that’s what you keep attracting.  Oh great, right?  I know, because I felt the same way when I had/have to face my own stuff.  What kind of relationship did you see your parents have?  Close?  Distant?  Hateful?  Angry?  Non-supportive?  Did either parent leave and now you are convinced on a subconscious level that love doesn’t last?   I’m assuming if you are reading this, my headline struck a nerve or interest in you.  What did you learn about love and what do you believe is possible for you?  You would be amazed at how we ALL, (in multiple ways), EXPECT “them out there” to give us what we need.  The real solution is to feel and give that to ourselves FIRST and then watch how it shows up from out there!  It’s exactly the opposite of what most of us learned and it is very effective to start inside.

Nice words, Joanne, but how do I do that?  If you are hurting or stuck, start by getting a Tapping coach like me, and begin to clean up and clear out your subconscious, energetic ASSUMPTIONS that got stuck in the first place.  Once you clear out some of the biggies in your way, you’d be amazed at how clear things will become, and how you will EASILY attract what you want–as if by magic.  You will not understand what I mean until you FEEL that shift.  You always have the option to continue to suffer if you prefer.  You have a choice.  You could wait your lifetime, because if somewhere inside you, love and relationships feel unsafe subconsciously, you won’t attract loving relationships.  This is NOT about logic but about energy that got stuck for some reason.  There is more just waiting for you that is so great!

So, do you find you keep hitting a wall with love?  Does the conflict of wanting love but fighting it at the same time confuse you?  I’d love to hear about your experiences.