Do you have limiting beliefs about money?

Money.  It’s a big topic, right?

At a gathering for business owners, I was surprised by the guest speaker’s comments.  He is a leader in the city, educated, and well-spoken.  However, he clearly has an “either/or” mentality about money.  I could hear his money beliefs that are limiting his abundance.

His speech including phrases like I was raised “right” unlike those big money people over there.  Those might not be his exact words, but that was his message.  In other words, you can’t be wealthy AND be raised right!  What impacted me even more than his speech, was the reaction in the room.  It was full of nodding heads that were in agreement.  The more he shared, it became clear that he lives in a poverty pocket of the city and is not really happy about it.  His money beliefs are housed in his mind and energy system but he doesn’t know it.  This is not a criticism but rather an explanation of how beliefs manifest into reality.

He is not unusual in his beliefs.  Where is it written that you can’t have wealth and be a good person?  It might not be written anywhere, but that belief sure is taught in many circles and then it’s passed down through generations.  Money does not define or limit the goodness of a person.  Money makes life easier, but it does not mold a person to be better or worse than the next.

Where do those assumptions and beliefs start?  Jealousy, frustration and limiting negative money beliefs are shared through families and passed down through generations.  Money patterns are most often learned and downloaded unconsciously.  The beliefs don’t have to be true or even correct, but they can be learned as if they are true.

What do those limiting beliefs and phrases sound like?  They have.  We don’t.  They are bad.  We are the good ones (without money).  We can’t win.  They got lucky.  They are greedy and I don’t want to be like THAT!  It goes on and on.

You may have never noticed or realized that what you believe about money might be untrue.  How do you change these assumptions and your energy to work for you instead of feeling frustrated about money?

Do you believe you can be wealthy and be a good person?  Do you entertain thoughts of how can I have “this” AND “that” or do many of your beliefs have an either/or limitation?  Tapping can remove your limiting beliefs.  Thinking good thoughts and affirmations about your desires may not work if you have too many reasons in your energy and subconscious mind with the instruction of– I can’t, it won’t work, I don’t deserve it, it’ll never happen for a person like me… You get the idea.

How do you change what you believe?  Start by paying attention to your thoughts and triggers.  When you look at someone who has the life you want, do you think thoughts such as, they are showing me what is possible, OR, do you think, that’s not fair, I hate that they have it and I don’t, they must be dishonest or have screwed someone to get to the top, it must’ve been handed to them…

The next step is to change your energy and subconscious beliefs.  Tapping is the best energy technique I’ve ever experienced so far, that can change those beliefs, release those energy patterns, and “program in” what you want.  Pretty amazing huh?

You can learn tapping on your own and there are oodles of short, tap-a-long videos on YouTube to give you a start.  You may or may not get results when using those short videos, however, because hidden but impactful reasons could prevent a shift or change.

How will you know if tapping is working?  Often times, a shift starts with a feeling of relief, or an ease in your body when you think about money.  You will become less tense and then, of course, manifestations will start showing up!  Changing beliefs is the first part of the goal.  When you manifest an internal change, your money will increase, and often times show up in unexpected ways!

Tapping can be learned and sometimes has had amazing results even when used by a novice.  However, if you aren’t getting results, please don’t blame tapping.  It is an amazing and life changing tool, but a skilled coach has learned the ins and outs of how to go deeper when hitting the walls.  There can be many subconscious reasons that can prevent results and you will not know about those as a beginner.  You may need tapping products for reinforcement or the guidance of a coach, like myself, to help you.  There is no shame in needing help.

I felt a wave of sadness as I heard him speak and the energy in the room felt helpless and frustrated.  He doesn’t know HE is the reason that money doesn’t show up in his life.  HIS BELIEFS have been solidified and reinforced in his mind, energy, and in his community.

You can’t use what you don’t know about.  Now you know that tapping can change your money situation.  What will you do with that info?  Will you open the door to your True Authentic Power?  It’s waiting!