Are you stuck in “the circle of chaos and crisis”?

Are you stuck in “the circle of chaos and crisis”?

Oh boy, I have been there!  I was part of a family who “learned to struggle” instead of getting our needs and desires met easily.  We learned that life was hard, that you had to work hard, and (in the case of the women) someone needed to take care of you.  None of those options ever appealed to me.

I had no idea how to change or break the patterns that I was raised to believe were true.   What I never realized was that my subconscious was being programmed into the belief that desires go unmet, and we get “fulfilled” from others, outside of ourselves.  I wanted something different, but how was I going to get it?

Then came a block of time when everything hit the fan in my life.  It came at lightning speed, and continued for years on end.  My Dad, Mom and my sweetheart of 20 years, all died.  Mom and Ray became tragically ill and I took on their care.  I developed breast cancer.  I lost my job due to cutbacks, and felt aimless and without direction or hope.  It was so HARD.  I took on responsibilities for others that weren’t mine…but I did all of that not knowing I could or should do things differently. What was I thinking????

I wasn’t thinking or deciding what was best for me.  I was “programmed” by what I saw when I was little.  I heard over and over again about money, and happiness but it was linked to DIFFICULTY.  “Their” patterns and habits, became MY patterns and habits without my even knowing it.  It’s a sneaky happening that catches many of us by surprise.  This is not about blame or fault.  I didn’t know I was choosing “their” ways of doing things, any more than they knew they were teaching me difficulty and struggle.

When my closest loved ones died, I was frantic, uncomfortable and terrified by circumstances that kept coming!  I was in danger of losing my home, and having a car repossessed not because of payment delinquency but because when someone dies, the contract is up!  My world was falling apart minute by minute in every way possible.  I felt like I was getting “hit” every time I turned around.  If it wasn’t an event out of my control, then it was someone’s behavior that seemed to be ruining my life with attacks.

When I learned tapping, it was in hopes to help “save” someone.  I had no idea it would be the tool I turned to for my own help!  When my loved ones died, I couldn’t explain why this tapping stuff worked so well for others but not them, and I was ANGRY about it!  I will never be able to explain someone else’s life journey, or the how, why and when, of death situations.

I used tapping to change my intense emotional devastation. I tapped to clear out the anger, sadness, trauma and the grief.  I was feeling better and started coming back to life!

Have you been through a time in your life that was so hard and you KNOW you are still carrying the emotions and pain of it?  I have been there too, and I’m telling you, there are so many more possibilities!

There are breakthrough signs when internal energy changes happen.  Do you want to know how they might show up?

• You feel happier for no reason!
• Previous hurdles dissolve and become part of the past!
• You develop a desire to eat better and take better care of yourself!
• Your creative genius shows up!
• You notice and act on nudges!
• You have more hope and contentment!
• You feel as if you are in the FLOW of life instead of paddling upstream!
• You draw in amazing life enhancing people, places and situations!
• You want to LIVE and have an excited anticipation of what else is waiting for you!
• People who love, nurture, and appreciate you, show up without your having to do ANYTHING!
• Your boundaries and standards become healthier and stronger!
• You no longer enable, attract, or make excuses for other people’s bad behavior!
• Life becomes more of an enjoyable adventure vs. something to survive!
• You catch yourself smiling just because you are HAPPY!

It’s a pretty nice transition, don’t you think?  You don’t have to suffer to try to get through things or beyond events that have brought you to your knees.  You can tap them away and release the patterns that created your struggles.

Bonding in misery will never make someone else feel happy or better.  You cannot become poor enough to make someone feel better about themselves.  You cannot make their journey easier for them if they don’t want to take responsibility for their lives.  Unless they are children and not adults, it’s not your job.  It’s up to them.

You are responsible for you.  You can tap, and watch your own miracles happen.  I don’t know how I would’ve gotten through all the turmoil that I did without my own tapping coach–even though I am a tapping coach myself!!!  It was just way too much to handle on my own.

If you are ready to create your life instead of reacting to life, call me.  As someone who’s “been there and through it”, I can guide you.  You CAN become all you are meant to be!  The belief and action of struggle is soooo overrated!!  Here’s to your True Authentic Power!