Ideal Times To Focus On Desire

There are tidbits that will help your desire.  Did you know that there is an ideal time to focus on your desire and outcomes?  You might actually have some energetic or subconscious block that is creating a delay of your desires for some reason.  Focusing on your desired outcomes can actually create more fear and more anxiety unless you do some deeper clean up.  That’s why it’s good to understand how and why tapping can help you in those circumstances.

People are always concerned about why tapping coaches suggest tapping on the negative aspects of a problem or situation first.  Isn’t that creating more negativity?  No, not while tapping.  The reason we get stuck in our replays, or the reason why our “story” never releases, is because if a situation is craving a resolution, many times there are a slew of buried feelings that are stuck, and that need a “voice”.  They need to be expressed to be released.

What do you do?

That does NOT mean that you take out what needs to be said on others.  No, but it does mean that those stifled expressions are a form of truth that need to be expressed.  Would you put perfume on trash and expect the smell to go away?  Positive affirmations work when your subconscious mind and energy are in alignment with what you are saying.  If there is a disconnect in that alignment, it is unlikely that you will get results from any positive statements or affirmations.

Any emotional or painful situation can get stuck and keep resurfacing if you don’t release the undercurrent of the pain, hurt, anger…  Look at it this way.  When a child wants what they want, they keep asking, bugging, and bringing up the same thing over and over again.  Think of your subconscious like that little child that won’t give up.  Why?  Because there is something that is bothered, and that is stuck and it needs to be honored.

When you FINALLY give attention ALONG WITH TAPPING to the issue that is screaming, the energy will begin to soften as if to say, whew…thanks for finally paying attention to me.  You will feel the shift by feeling less charged about the issue, or less bothered by the issue, or less stressed and irritated about it.  When tapping on a problem or feelings, you can actually FEEL the release and a letting go.  Sometimes that release will resolve with needing to take a deep breath, or by yawning, burping or just by feeling more relaxed.  Sometimes you might feel the need to cry but it will feel good not sad, because it’s a relief!

That’s why coaches will ask you to scale your discomfort.  When you can get that discomfort to release or lower, then that’s the perfect time to start putting in the positives.  Once the charge is down, those positive affirmations will hold and begin to have an effect on your desire.

How many times have you said something positive to yourself only to hear that inner voice saying, who are you kidding?  That will never work!  That voice is your inner subconscious saying that something doesn’t line up or jive together.

You can try out some tapping along with my videos  and see what you think.  You can change the words to be more specific for what you are dealing with and you can also learn how to tap IN your desire by downloading my free Design Your Life Now goal list.  Included in the download is a video to show how to use the goal list.  It’s actually a desire list and who doesn’t have those, right?!  Try it out!  Let me know below in the comments if you have questions.  If you don’t get results, then something is in the way and I can help.

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